Though me and wifey have MANY different issues on many different topics in life and with the raising of our kids, I put up with a lot of her shhhh and she definitely puts up with my shhhhh. The defining pieces of our relationship hinge on our vision of the bigger picture. She may hate me at times for my approach and me her's (she hates when I call her on it) we know that our family is first, the kids, the love we have for each other, the growth from every drama we come across. And at the end of the day this is what it takes for real families to be together. Good luck to all the couples who try hard to find common ground for the greater good of their families, believe me we all go thru it!