Ive lied to my husband about many little things. I know that lies big or small are lies. Every Relationship your gonna have lies. But the thing is those that lie to benefit there own selfish needs. Are the worst, because those that lie to manipulate things convince thereself that there not lieing that the lie is actually the truth. However dont judge they way someone lies. You have no idea why they lie. Worry about you and your own lies and pray for those that not only hurt others but hurt thereself. I am no better then anyone. However any lie I ever told. Was to only carry the pain alone. To only not make someone I love hurt or worry. Ive lied about my feelings the most more then anything. Because I was so afraid if I told the truth. That I would get hurt more. Its hard to lie to someone you love, you carry it with you always. But its what we lie about thats what seperates the liars from the dishonest. The key in relationships you both have to be lieing for the same reasons. To not hurt the one you love. Thats when its easy to forgive and not question those little white lies. I love the way my husband lies.