Some of the greatest stories begin with a flashback, others with a foreshadowing of the hearts desires. But before I begin this story it is very important to understand how I view the world. Every man I believe seeks a friend, but what he truly seeks is love. Contrary to what people say about guys and girls being able to be friends without the physical or loving attraction, it is my belief that guys look and become friends with a girl because of that physical and loving attraction. Any guy who says that they just wish to be friends with a girl is lying. There is no such thing as a guy not having feelings for a girl that he has befriended. There is also this motive or attraction on behalf of guys in order to get to know a girl. The simple truth is, there is no such thing as friendship between guys and girls without there being a physical or emotional attraction behind at least one of these two people. Maybe you just want to be her friend, but she wants something more. Perhaps she wants to be your friend, but you want something more. I know, I know, humans always tend to want something more. I will give you the perspective of a guy or a male or a man, if you prefer these terms better than the word guy. Do not try to find out who I am or why I am writing this; just know that if you are reading this, it means you were meant to read it. Embrace it if you like, or stop reading right now and go text your girlfriend or boyfriend and tell them how much you love them or how things are just not working out anymore. If you are reading this, it means you are missing something, and you might or might not know what it is, but you are here. The choice is yours. Keep reading or stop and go on with your daily routine. I am not offended I promise.
For those of you that decided to stay with me, it is going to be a bumpy ride, but it will be worth it, I guarantee it. Ask yourself, how many things are guaranteed in life? If you said none, you are correct. So I guess you shouldn’t hold me accountable to my guarantee, but at least have a little faith in what you are about to read even if I haven’t specified what it is yet. Faith can take you a long way, you just have to trust and even if you have trusted before and got hurt, you have to learn to trust again. That is how life works. You can’t just give up on life or people. You too are a human and by nature bound to make mistakes. So why not make a mistake and keep reading, at least if you don’t like what I have to say you can always close the book at anytime and continue your life the way you always have.