Discussion - hmm
About:
"Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, w...
| Username | Post | Date |
|---|---|---|
| zzzzz | this is not my boyfriend at all.... :( |
5/5/2009 5:26:22 AM Mark as Offensive |
| ~Haris~ | The quote in itself seems deathly impractical. You should take kindly to the human flaws of your boyfriend, instead of complaining and whinning about them all for some loose dream pipe, such as the one this quote trots out. | 5/5/2009 8:29:51 AM Mark as Offensive |
| kilroy85 |
"at all"? maybe you could need to reevaluate your relationship and whether you want to continue it. I have never called my girl "hot", but I probably call her beautiful atleast once a day... I honestly don't like the term "hot" to describe a girl; when a guy says that, to me it seems he sees her more as an object than a person. |
5/5/2009 11:32:10 AM Mark as Offensive |
| eatsleep&blink | actually i dont think this one has ridiculous standards :P | 5/8/2009 7:39:17 PM Mark as Offensive |
| kilroy85 | neither do i | 5/8/2009 8:22:33 PM Mark as Offensive |
| whatboutyou? |
the part that seems impractical is the inconsistent flattery. Personally if i had a gf who felt she needed daily reminder of 'how much i need her' i'd ditch her egocentric ass faster than you could blink. |
5/9/2009 8:32:58 AM Mark as Offensive |
| whatboutyou? |
Not to mention a guy overusing the flattery is deemed as dependent, and often times too needy himself. This quote doesn't establish limits, and doesn't indicate a need for one. This is problematic because any guy deemed as 'needy' most times is turned away unless the girl herself has power issues, in which case the guy is in for a rough time anyways. |
5/9/2009 8:34:43 AM Mark as Offensive |
| kilroy85 | i think you are making it out to be more than it is... "daily reminder of 'how much i need her'" wasn't even a part of the quote... which seems to be (in general) saying to choose a guy who loves and respects her... at least that's the general sense i get from it | 5/9/2009 11:36:51 AM Mark as Offensive |
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