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Dear Girls (from us guys)...

*Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.

*Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.

*On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.

*Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
Yeah, you can quote me.

*Don't be mad when we hold the door open.
Smile and say "thank you."
Let us pay for you.
Don't "feel bad."
We enjoy doing it.
It's expected.
Smile and say - everybody together now - "thank you."

*Kiss us when no one's watching.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.

*You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.

*Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with you.

*Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.

*Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.

*Whatever happened to the word "handsome"?
Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy"?
I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of.
Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.

**Girls, I cannot stress this enough: if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.
Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect.
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.

Posted by spazz4brains in Love  ID#:49484

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GEEZ!! Thank you so much, it makes me want to find snother guy who thinks that! That is seriously so kewl that you think like that. It takes alot for ANY guy to say something that meaning full!! You're awesome
rock on!

Omg!!!!! I love you i wish all guys thought that. Even if they do they don't let you know. I wish the guy i liked would be like that but we dont like to admit it.






Why don't guys ask girls out? I mean were always waiting for the moment to come but it ends up being us that asks.
well that is just absolutly amazing but i would die to find any guy that is actually like that

wow, the male perspective on things are a lot different from what i thought. Im so glad this was written, it made me smile, but not all girls can have the confidence guys want. Some girls are afraid of being embarrassed and shot down, thts why we don't believe good things that others tell us.
I Love the quote, the best i have ever heard from a guy.
wait..why would a guy be more impressed if you kissed him when no one was looking..wouldnt u just think shes embarrassed to kiss me or embarrassed of me?
most of this a good but i hav to say first of all a girl should kiss a guy wen everyone is around so it means that she isnt afraid to be with him infront of ppl and second of all if those things can mak u mad at a girl then u dont lov her.
thanks. this has made my day. there has been other discussions about girls saying why should we kiss boy when no ones looking. i kinda like to think because it makes it more special, like its your kiss not theres, it's kind of saying this is our moment together and we should cherish every second.
ughh whoever you are, i wanna meet a guy like youu :)
Ohh MAH GOSH!!! BEAUtiFUL!!! iM SPEECHlESs!!

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