whether you live down the street or thousand miles away from the love ones you brought into this world, it's really all about what you have itched in your head, your memories, your thoughts. When you walked your child into preschool and you looked in that window and watched just to make sure he was okay, when he made his first step, when he passed his driving test, and when he left home and became the man you prayed he would be. Those type of memories never leave your mind. When alone and praying, you ask God to keep my son safe and watch over him please bring happiness to his life. For me, its a fact it all goes by in a blink. I was looking for that story that has a long ending, I thought growing old would take longer.